For Men
Understanding your wife's sophisticated sexual process will help you improve your sensual experience together and make intimacy more meaningful for both of you.
Meaningfulness
You will enhance intimacy with your wife when you focus on Intention & Meaningfulness: You each get to decide what personal purpose you want to accomplish with every experience you have. When you realize that discovering more about sensual depth with your wife is endless, the experience will have more meaning for both of you. This is a great way to include a deep level of spirituality and anything else that will help increase your connection.
Relaxation
Men, you will be a much better lover when you acknowledge how much stress and tension impacts your wife's arousal system. It is very challenging for the female body to move into desire and arousal when cortisol levels (cause stress) are high. Relaxation is key. Our goal is to help you create relaxation rituals at the beginning of each experience to calm the mind, the heart, and the body. It is worth spending the time to show her how much you want to understand her.
Mystery & Discovery
Saintly Sutra uses the concept of discovery and mystery when it comes to how a woman is clothed for the sensual experience. As much as men enjoy certain types of "sexy" clothing, we encourage the use of robes or cover ups instead of lingerie. Mystery and confidence are incredibly sexy. When a woman is feeling like she is ready to reveal more of herself on a deeper level, she chooses when to uncover and disrobe as a way to show that she is ready to make more of herself known. Her confidence and trust in you is key to her intimacy trek toward the deepest sensuality, spirituality, and connection.
Sensual Bliss
How and what you and your wife think about intimacy makes all of the difference in how you experience it. Thought awareness is key to desire, arousal, orgasm, and connection.
Your sexual journey will be soooo much better if it flows through the most meaningful emotional phases first. While most of us are taught the "ordinary" and limited view of the sexual experience - focusing only on the physical, Saintly Sutra gives a more complete and holistic roadmap that will exponentially improve Sensual Bliss for both of you.
While most men are built with a drive that pushes them towards sex, most women are built with a sex pull, being drawn in to move closer towards the things that capture their attention on an emotional level, first. This is what has been missing in media and the limited understanding we have about fully connected intimacy.
Saintly Sutra’s mission is to put the emotional connection back where it belongs. The sequence of phases in The Intimacy Trek are sequential: Meaningful Thoughts, Emotional Desire, Physical Arousal, Sexual Intercourse and Orgasm, and Afterglow. This is Bliss.
Consentual Confidence
Asking permission to begin the sexual experience brings a high level of respect to each person. Often, when we get married and start engaging in the sexual experience, the woman begins to think it's her duty to be like a convenience store, open 24/7 to fulfill her husband’s sexual desires and needs. Ordinary and obligatory sex is boring, and does not ignite the pleasure part of the brain to long for more. Saintly Sutra encourages men and women to ask for permission to begin a sexual experience, and even to move on from one phase of the trek to the next. This allows each phase to be thoroughly experienced before jumping ahead too quickly.
Mantras & Communication
Mantras are short sayings that are personal, meaningful, and significant to us on a unique and individual level. If we feel our mind is starting to wander or we get distracted, we can say one of these mantras in our head during the sexual experience.
Saintly Sutra believes in communicating our comfort levels using a numbered scale which is far more representative of our actual experience. Negative 20 would communicate a very painful and uncomfortable experience, while positive 20 would signify an amazingly positive experience of comfort and pleasure, with 0 being completely neutral. This range shows us where growth can be made.
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